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Here to get you thinking in terms of spectrums, not boxes. Highlighting thoughts, experiences, and debates about gender and sexuality

I used to find Black women unattractive

We've all heard the argument that racial dating preferences are "inherently racist." Perhaps you disagree; there's just no way you'll find (insert race here)...

Not Your Fun Gay Party Time: Str8 Ppl and Pride

Pride is historical celebration of the LGBTQ+ community, and is for LGBTQ+ people and LGBTQ+ people only. Let me make that more clear: Pride...

Yes, I’m Playing Games. Now Walk Away From Me

'Now walk away from me' is a funny Vine compilation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OKxgh9cc6yE It's also an accurate representation of how a lot of young adults today go about their...

Being Asexual

Per the author's request, I am keeping the author of this article anonymous. Hopefully, this person's experience with asexuality can help you understand sexual...

Your #WokeBae might be woke, but he’s still a man

As women, we’re socialized to praise men in everything they do, no matter how mediocre. So what happens when men go “above and beyond”...

Jin Xing Makes China Look A Lot Like the United States

I opened the Economist newsletter I get in my inbox every couple of days because the subject line of this email interested me. "Meet China's Oprah Winfrey,"...
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Straight, Cis, Male, And Not White

Sometimes it takes a perceptive, in-your-face Asian guy to remind you issues of race and gender aren't so black and white. Fortunately, I found...

A Woman’s Perspective On Kim K’s Feminism

A follow-up to 'Ayesha Curry and All Of Your Fucking Goals' Several weeks ago, I wrote about Twitter's roundtable conference about the ideal female partner...