Not Your Fun Gay Party Time: Str8 Ppl and Pride
Pride is historical celebration of the LGBTQ+ community, and is for LGBTQ+ people and LGBTQ+ people only. Let me make that more clear: Pride...
Your #WokeBae might be woke, but he’s still a man
As women, we’re socialized to praise men in everything they do, no matter how mediocre. So what happens when men go “above and beyond”...
Straight, Cis, Male, And Not White
Sometimes it takes a perceptive, in-your-face Asian guy to remind you issues of race and gender aren't so black and white. Fortunately, I found...
I used to find Black women unattractive
We've all heard the argument that racial dating preferences are "inherently racist." Perhaps you disagree; there's just no way you'll find (insert race here)...
Dear women tired of mediocre white men,
Dear women tired of mediocre white men,
I’ve heard a lot of you complain about the mediocre white men you date. I’ve heard complaints about how...
The Pulse Shooting and The Erasure of QTPOC
The recent homophobic mass shooting of over 50 LGBTQ+ Latinx* folks at the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, Florida has shed light upon an issue...
We’re Pressed About Jalen Ramsey Possibly Being Gay. Why?
Football players talk a lot of shit. You don't get to the NFL without knowing how to engage in psychological warfare. But Jacksonville Jaguars...
Take Your Gay Ass to See Moonlight
Since the shit I wrote on my site about this flick was more homophobic than preferring prostate cancer to a prostate exam, I decided to give this...